~My Say~

Here's my say on my man, what i expect from a guy. Yela, lelaki leh je ltk syarat2 utk plh pom - yg pkai tudung la, yg pndai masak la, yg kurus la, yg pandai melaram la, yg itu la, yg ini la. so, pom pn ade syarat2 gak. one book that i recently read mentioned that a lady should set her own standards on his ideal man so she'll not be lost and she can easily choose the best.
here goes ;
1) he always has us in him
2) he must say no to cigarettes atau yg seangkatan dgn benda tu
3) he takes care of his health coz i really am particular about this issue
4) he keeps to his words
5) he knows how and when to say sorry and never repeats them
6) he protects us
7) he can accept & understand the eccentric me, my family, friends and everything relates to me.
8) he's not boastful & not always about himself
9) he listens
10) he succeeds in his world
11) he knows how to balance everything in life
12) he can make me respect him for what he thinks, does and says
13) he is loyal
14) he ain't a player
15)he's responsible
16)he's smart cognitively
17)he's not dressed selekeh la sgt
18)he likes reading
19)he's compassionate
20)he respects d elderly
21)he has his own principles and follow them through
22)he doesn't have hutang keliling pinggang
23)he's good in managing finance etc
24)he's thrifty but not pelokek with me. always pemurah with me, hehe
and the list goes on and on and on
i'm not that particular of what he did in the past coz i'm not the type of digging the past. i'm a realist and i look forward to the future. yes, without the past, there's no future. learn from the past, don't ever repeat and make the best for the future, ain't it better?
ok, revised. maybe i do wanna care a bit on his past as he'll carry my children's genes especially on his health etc. as for the traits, i can't help those. it's in his blood. we'll just have to work the best for us..together, for the best..nothing can be achieved if u work single-handedly..two is better than one, as it goes..
well, that's just a list, a guideline. whoever he is, d one, is already fated and destined. i don't know him, yet. what i do know now is me. so, i gotta just be myself, always love what i'm doing now, always contented with everything i have now and make the best out of it.
i should thank everybody around me for making me so blessed being around them
ayah, who has given me such powerful traits of being so independent and intellectual.
ibu, who has helped me in being a woman, digging my feminine side, practising patience and modesty.
eddy, my dearest bro, who understands and believes in me though we put our claws out sometimes, d'oh..
fadhil, who has now able to listen to my suggestions in making his life better..my words are now finally making sense to him, hoho..
izzat, whom i hope he's forgiven my jerks in the past..i was totally hideous then, i now admit and confess, true to the ground..
nabihah, who is very, very, very, much like me (i know u'll disagree to this statement, aha!), though we still have some dissimilarities, thank you for letting me instil English in you..
hidayah, who is really cool in giving me advice and really good in enterprising things..
forgive me as i ought to write more as words can never express one's exact feelings..

grateful and honoured to let me have all of you in my heart
as usual, i'll istikharah, istiqamah and tawakal..insyaAllah, He knows the best and He has bigger plans for me..